Stop thinking that a wife has charmed her husband just because she has a lot of influence over him.
When a wife gives her husband good love, good food, a good home & good company, he will give her influence over him because she deserves totally that.

Just massage your husband’s body. Then massage his ego. Then massage his self esteem. By the time you are done you will get the message you seek.
Stoop to conquer
Reno Omokri